The difference between preference and prejudice may be a subtle one on the individual scale, but when you look at the trends, it's clearly a problem.
Research from UC Davis by sociologist Kevin Lewis noted that apart from men wanting to contact Asian women, people on the whole were less than keen to make contact outside their own race.
Although, looks are still important men repeatedly rave about their Asian wife’s kindness, compassion, and genuine loving nature.
For many Western men the love of an Asian woman is a balm that soothes their heart and heals them body and soul. Although, it is hard to generalize a lot of retired military men who have seen and done very hard things finally end up happily married to an Asian bride who cures his bad dreams with love.
If you are the sort of person who wonders why date after date goes badly wrong, could it be the stringent and frankly arbitrary rules - about race, or age, or income or whatever - that may be contributing to this?