Of course, there are men out there that will disagree but the vast majority of us are scared stiff of the future.A week in advance, or possibly a month, is usually as far as we are willing to commit after a few weeks or even months of dating.
He has laid all his cards on the table without even realising it.
Now you know he’s taking this thing seriously and you can probably stop calling it dating and start using the word relationship.
Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.
A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.
This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.