Mistake #2 – Waiting too long to invite her out and set up the date – The main reason you get a girl’s number is because you’re not able to take her out on a date right then and there when you meet her. The longer you wait to ask her out, she more chance she has to forget about you.
Remember, she’s on social media all day long and also has other guys asking her out. C = Close – This is what you should start with when you first get her number.
She wants a guy who is going to step up and ask her out. Mistake #3 – Not having a plan before you text her – Lots of guys will fire off a boring text without giving it much thought. ” What they don’t realize is that she gets texts like this all the time from other guys. She still has good feelings about meeting you, and she gave you her number so she could see you again. Now if you notice in the first text, I sent a combination of stage 3 and stage 2.
Instead, just put a little thought into what you want to send her, and you’ll be much more likely to stand out and win her attention. There’s no reason to initiate some long, drawn out “get to know you over text” conversation. First, I reminded her of what we connected over when we first met (ethnic food).
The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.