The perception unfortunately is that I am willing to sleep with anyone and do anythingjust because I am married.
Unfortunately nothing could be further from the truth.
Trust me you are opening Pandoras Box....careful what you wish for Probably what Pookie already said, but I think there's a high risk that if you start a physical relationship with someone you like, you'll end up with feelings for them..then things might start to overlap and you'll possibly break up your marriage anyway, with lots of hurt feelings all round.
But yeah, I've got a friend who managed it for a while.
An affair with a married woman looking for something outside of her marriage can be extremely enlivening.