I naively expected that marriage would be handed to me if I simply went on dates, and because I expected that, I made marriage far more important than getting to know the guys I dated.
I ended up dating guys who were in no way compatible or right for me. Some of you probably expected (or expect) marriage to just happen once you started dating, and you’ve likely found that that’s not how it works.
” It influenced my dating life so much that it made me miserable.
I took every date seriously, and when it didn’t work out, my confidence took a major hit.
Seek out your desire to marry, but most importantly, concern yourself with getting to know and perhaps love those you date. When dating someone you really like post-mission, you may really want to hold their hand or kiss them.